Welcome! A note from Catherine...
On pursuing well-being after traumatic loss
This project isn’t about me, but it did start with me. Years ago, while I was recovering from a traumatic injury, I sketched a “healing map” to try to articulate what the first year of recovery after huge accident feels like.
Interestingly, while I included lots of physical benchmarks, the main moments that stuck with me were emotional and relational. These experience benchmarks were how I felt about myself, and my sense of agency: changes in my resilience, purpose, belonging, connectedness, and sense of meaning.
Looking at my map, I realized — every one of these aspects changed depending on who was around me, investing in my life (or, not…) at the time!
When I sketched a map of my first year healing from grief and the loss of a very loved one, these same healing benchmarks showed up. Even though the two losses felt, and were, radically different. In both, I could clearly see the seasons where I flourished through the care from others, and moved into new senses of meaning and purpose; and the seasons where I felt stuck and terribly alone.